Would You?

It’s always fun in the beginning.
It’s always exciting when you’re getting to know each other.
It’s always thrilling to chase one another.

Eventually, it gets hard.
Eventually, it becomes difficult.
Eventually, it drains you.
That’s when people tend to quit and go look for someone else because “THE SPARK IS GONE”. You start searching for another spark, in another person or another things cause you no longer feel the same spark in the one you love anymore.

But listen, that isn’t how it supposed to be.
No, that’s not how it works. It doesn’t have to be that way. Even when it does get boring, you have no exciteness or admireness anymore like you used to feel.
You supposed to remember why you are with that person in the first place. Why you want to be together with that person then. It’s never too late to find the happiness that you both once found together. Because the truth is, it’s always been there and never left.

Even when it feels like the feeling are fading, that’s when you’re supposed to know how much this person means to you. And how losing them would be like. Being able to love the one you love even when the relationship turning hard.
You’re supposed to realise that no matter with someone whose willing to love unconditionally and never give up on you. You love that person no matter what. No matter what, you said.

I don’t want just because one insignificant reason makes you create an excuse for us to breakup while many other reasons, maybe ten or a hundred or a thousand other reasons that could make us stay together. Don’t let that one negative reason cover up many other positive reasons. Think again why we go through all the time, the distance, everything together. Think again why we love each other and how happy we are with that 🙂

“The most important thing to me is the fact that I want him with my whole heart.”

“Love is all I am going to believe in.”

“I couldn’t change my mind about him, though. I went on loving him just the same, and I could never be interested in anyone else.”

—Haruki Murakami.

I love you. No matter what.